The Marriage Works - Facts about marriage

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8 Essential Elements of a Healthy Marriage:

1	Both partners participate in the definition of the relationship
2	There is a strong marital bond characterized by closeness
3	The spouses are interested in each other’s thoughts and feelings
4	The expression of feelings is encouraged by a climate of safety
5	Conflicts are discussed and resolved without damage to the relationship
6	Problem-solving skills are well developed
7	The ability to deal with change and stress is well developed
8	Most basic values are shared

26 Conclusions About Marriage:

Family
1	Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers and mothers have good relationships with their children.
2	Cohabitation is not the functional equivalent of marriage.
3	Growing up outside an intact marriage increases the likelihood that children will them selves divorce or become unwed parents.
4	Marriage is a virtually universal human institution.
5	Marriage and a normative commitment to marriage, foster high-quality relationships between adults, as well as between parents and children.
6	Marriage has important biosocial consequences for adults and children.

Economics
7	Divorce and unmarried childbearing increase poverty for both children and mothers.
8	Married couples seem to build more wealth on average than singles or cohabiting couples.
9	Marriage reduces poverty and material hardship for disadvantaged women and their children.
10	Minorities benefit economically from marriages.
11	Married men earn more money than do single men with similar education and job histories.
12	Parental divorce (or failure to marry) appears to increase children’s risk of school failure.
13	Parental divorce reduces the likelihood that children will graduate from college and achieve high-status jobs.

Mental Health and Emotional Well-Being
14	Children whose parents divorce have higher rates of psychological distress and mental illness.
15	Divorce appears to increase significantly the risk of suicide.
16	Married mothers have lower rates of depression than do single or cohabiting mothers.
17	Boys raised in single-parent families are more likely to engage in delinquent and criminal behavior.
18	Marriage appears to reduce the risk that adults will be either perpetrators or victims of crime.
19	Married women appear to have a lower risk of experiencing domestic violence than do cohabiting or dating women.
20	A child who is not living with his or her own two married parents is at greater risk for child abuse.

Physical Health and Longevity
21	Children who live with their own two married parents enjoy better physical health, on average, than do children in other family forms.
22	Parental marriage is associated with a sharply lower risk of infant mortality.
23	Marriage is associated with reduced rates of alcohol and substance abuse for both adults and teens.
24	Married people, especially married men, have longer life expectancies than do otherwise similar singles.
25	Marriage is associated with better health and lower rates of injury, illness, and disability for both men and women.
26	Marriage seems to be associated with better health among minorities and the poor.

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